The Pros And Cons Of Falling Head-Over-Heels In Love With An Aries

There’s more to them then meets the eye!

Falling in love is a wonderful and magical part about life. Suddenly Monday mornings aren’t so bad after all because you have someone to look forward to seeing or waking up next to. You see everything in a new light. The sky seems bluer, the grass is greener, and the sun is brighter.

Even the birds seem to sing just for you! And you don’t get upset when you see couples showing PDA anymore because you do that now too (like ALL the time). So of course all your friends, coworkers, neighbors and family members start to notice the change in you.

Which leads to them asking you … “Could THIS be ‘the one’?”


And then suddenly you find yourself going through every aspect of your relationship trying to determine if his/her qualities make them husband/wife potential.

There’s nothing wrong with worrying about the future of your relationship, but by focusing on it too much you’ll lose sight of what really matters — which is enjoying the present. You’ve found something truly good in your life so enjoy it for however long it lasts. Don’t take what you have for granted.

If you have fallen madly in love with an Aries then there’s no surprise why. You have probably already found out that Aries are some of the most passionate and caring people you will ever meet.

Having a healthy and happy relationship takes a whole lot of work, but you never have to worry about an Aries giving up and skimping on what it takes. No way. They’re not the kind of people to turn tail and run when the going gets tough. They’re in it for the long haul if they think it’s worth it.

It can take a lifetime to really get to know someone. So here’s the skinny on the good and bad of falling in love with an Aries so you know what you have gotten yourself into.

CON: They always forget that good things come to those who wait.

You’ll have to have a lot of patience to deal with how impatient Aries are. They don’t handle long lines, road trips or backordered items very well which will most likely lead to them getting moody. They have a lot to learn when it comes to the virtue of patience. So if you plan a big trip or order something they’ve had their eye on for a while, best not to tell them until the day comes.

CON: They know very little about self-control.

Don’t be surprised if your S.O. comes home one day with a puppy or a new flat screen TV. They are the kind of people who live in the moment, which if you haven’t already learned, can be a bad thing. Aries are incredibly impulsive. They want and get everything when they want it.

This also makes them tough tto deal with when it comes to gift giving. What can you get the person that has everything? If they make a large purchase (like a puppy) that you don’t feel comfortable with, don’t be afraid to tell them. Don’t put yourself in a situation that you can’t get out of later on down the line.  (As cute as puppies are, they are a TON of responsibility)

READ: 13 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries (As Written By An Aries)

PRO: They cannot tell a lie (well they can, they just don’t like to.)

Aries are all about keeping it real. You can make a relationship work without honesty, but more likely than not it will be dysfunctional and you’ll be miserable. Besides, you want someone in your life that you can rely on to always tell you the truth, even if you don’t want to hear it. Aries are masters at doing just that. Their intention is never to hurt your feelings. They just don’t want there to be any secrets between you. Dishonesty is one of the fastest ways to kill a relationship, and they definitely don’t want any skeletons in the closet to ruin a good thing.

PRO: They can always see the bright side.

Life is full of ups and downs and there is no one better to have at your side than an Aries. They will help you to see that not every bad thing that happens is entirely bad. Some good can from the bad and they will help you to stay focused on that when times get tough. They’ll be your biggest supporter and biggest cheerleader.

READ: 10 Brutal Truths About Loving An Aries Man

PRO: They don’t mind a challenge.

Aries are the sort of people who have enough determination and stubbornness to see something through until the very end. So whether it’s fixing up that fixer up you just bought together or running a marathon with you, they are up for whatever. They’ll always be able to surprise you.

PRO: Their passion could light a room on fire.

If there’s one thing you can count on, it’s that there will never be a lack of passion in your relationship. Out of all the zodiac signs, Aries are the most passionate. You could light fires with the amount of passion that an Aries has. Can you say HOT? If things ever get monotonous in the bedroom, they’ll have no trouble spicing things up. 


The One Behavior That’s Pushing Your Forever Person Away, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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(March 21st to April 19th)

Your intolerance.

Though you are one of the smartest and most self-aware signs of the Zodiac – and a leader, through and through – you can struggle with being frustrated when others don’t immediately understand what you’re talking about, or share an opinion that you find to be self-evident. This is particularly true when it comes to your romantic relationships: you expect people to be something that they perhaps are not. The problem here is not that your partner isn’t exactly the person you want them to be at all times, it’s that you have an expectation that they should be the person you want them to be at all times. Your intolerance for their differences in opinion, thought and ideas are what’s holding you back from having the relationship of your dreams.


(April 20th to May 21st)

Your image.

Tauruses curate their lives. Whether or not you realize it, everything that you do is subconsciously chosen with the express intent of either fitting into an idea or an image of what you think would look beautiful or seem impressive for your life. The one thing that’s holding you back from happily being with your forever person is how critical you are of what they seem to be on the surface, and how you imagine other people will judge you for it. It is a call for you to try to expand beyond just what you think would look best for your life, and focus on what you feel.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

Your indecisiveness.

The funny thing about Geminis is that it’s rare that they are indecisive about their relationships (they usually know when they love someone, and can commit with ease and happiness). However, it’s their “all over the place” demeanor in almost every other aspect of their lives that tends to hold their relationships back. When you come home with piles of work stress, friend stress, conflicting thoughts and feelings on big things, like where you want to live, or little things, like home decor, it’s exhausting to feel like you’re constantly on unsteady ground. Some time to “find yourself” is essential before you’ll really be able to relax into a life with someone you love.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

Your tendency to over-react.

Cancers are dramatic! But that’s what’s bound to happen when someone is so sensitive and takes everything so personally. Your habit of over-responding when something is going wrong is absolutely what’s holding back your ideal relationship. Your partner never knows when you’re going to be in a slightly off-kilter mood and end up exploding over something minuscule, or they fear bringing up issues to you because you generally have a low tolerance for stress, and could twist it to mean something that it doesn’t. Your emotionality is going to be part of your personality for your whole life, but you have to work on not exaggerating or inflating your feelings (they seem big, but the thing they are in reference to may not be… learn to be aware of this).


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

Your self-determination.

I should start out by saying that there’s nothing inherently wrong with being self-sufficient and confident (obviously). However, it’s definitely a trait that Leos tend to take to an extreme, and it ends up interfering with your ability to peacefully coexist and learn to rely on someone. Here’s the (inconvenient) truth about relationships: they require you to be vulnerable. To trust someone else. To not always do everything for yourself and by yourself. This is at once the beautiful part of being with someone, and the scary part… but right now, to you, it only seems intimidating. Just know that the kind of support you can receive when you really open up to someone is exactly what you’re looking for. You can be an independent person and still build a life with someone; the two are not mutually exclusive.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

Your paranoia.

Your relationships are not anywhere near as complicated as you like to make them out to be. (Nothing is as complicated as it tends to be in your mind.) It’s not that you have one or two compulsive, scary thoughts now and again… it’s that over time, you start to worry about dumb things and then eventually, everything starts to really bother you and you start to over-react and self-sabotage what you really want because you don’t want it to hurt you first. (That was a long sentence, but it’s an important sentence.) You have to learn to just dial it back a little and let people be themselves. Not everything is your problem to take care of. Your partner is an adult. They can handle themselves.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

Your ego.

Now, now, no Libra is going to take well to hearing that their ego is what’s standing in the way of their love life (Libras love love and deplore seeming full of themselves) but god it is so true. Your perfectionistic, idealistic view on life is what’s really standing in your way right now. You so genuinely expect that your partner should be superhuman and flawless that anytime they show a sign of even a slight flaw or weakness, you are all but horrified. In fact, you might be a little afraid to move forward with your relationship because you can’t grasp why you guys argue sometimes, or why they aren’t perfect at everything. (News flash: it’s normal! You’re not perfect either!) Learning to chill out and recognize that it doesn’t all have to be “together” to live a happy and fulfilling life together is going to be the key for you.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

Your fear of rejection.

Well, you probably saw this coming. Scorpios, you make some of the best partners of all, but it’s your fear of being rejected or unloved that manifests as jealousy, anger, resistance or avoidance in your relationships. Yes, it’s scary, the idea that you could love someone with everything that you have and the sentiment isn’t reciprocated. However, that’s true for anyone who has ever loved anyone else. It’s not like you’re being specifically targeted as “not good enough,” you’re just overreacting to something that everyone has to deal with. Get out of your own way and go get the love you (so desperately) want.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

The idea that you have to settle.

You’ll be hard pressed to find a Sag who will want to willingly “settle down” even if they do meet the absolute love of their lives… and you’ll also be hard pressed to find one who won’t, because Sagittarians are actually mega romantics underneath it all. But here’s what you have to learn: you can still live the exact life that you want to live, and you can do it with someone you love. You don’t have to choose between “house and kids” or “travel and reading.” You can do all of that with someone who is likewise interested in that kind of lifestyle. The trick is finding that kind of person, and not just giving up before you’ve even tried.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

Your need to control.

You cannot fix other people’s problems for them. You cannot make someone love you if they do not love you. You cannot reduce yourself bit by bit to seem more palatable and interesting and not expect to be unhappy in the end. The reality is that your need to micro-control all of the outcomes of your relationships is what’s keeping you from really finding the right person to be with, and then being with them. You need to find enough confidence to know that you’re more than enough as you are, and you should find a partner who believes that, too.


(January 21st to February 18th)

Your quirks.

As an Aquarius, what’s holding you back from your forever person is not that you can’t find them, or that you don’t know how to make a relationship work, rather that you tend to have a series of little odd quirks that make you feel “different.” In fact, feeling “misunderstood” is probably the thing that you struggle with the most in your relationship, to which you need to understand that your partner doesn’t need to be everything to you. They are not a replacement for your friends, your family, your fellow existential oddballs who want to talk about whatever topics you’re obsessively interested in at the moment. Your person loves you for these things, not in spite of them. It’s your own paranoia that’s holding you back.


(February 19th to March 20th)

Your tendency to be all over the place.

Pisces, the biggest thing standing in the way of you and your relationship is the fact that you are just so unpredictable and undecided about life. When you’re with your partner, you’re talking about all these conflicting feelings you have, the projects you want to start and then stop, the countries you want to move to or visit, the people who you love and then strongly dislike… it’s all a lot for someone to take in. You need to get a little clearer on what you want in your life, and then commit to it. It’s only once you’re walking down one path that someone else can walk beside you – and actually keep up. TC mark

This Is Your Social Media Presence, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Social media users share characteristics when it involves our online presence. In some shape or form, our behavior on social media is reflective of who we are in the public eye. Yet it seems these traits are also relative to our zodiac characteristics. Have you ever wondered how others perceive your social media profile? The stars may have an answer for you.

Remember that the general interpretations of your characteristics are not definite to your sign. Your birth chart is unique in relation to the time, year, and place you were born. What you read below can be integrative to your sun sign, and it’s definitely important to consider your Midheaven and Rising signs to better understand your own behavior.

To calculate your birth chart to clear any inconsistencies in your general interpretation below, go here.

Disclaimer: If you are not much of a social media user, you will have a difficult time relating to any of these. I did not take into account the zodiac personalities who don’t use/rarely use social media.

Aries (March 21st-April 19th): “My social media profile is the pixel version of my trophy case.”

“Trophy” for an Aries means literally anything you are proud of or that you see is a reward in your life. This can mean your literal trophies, victories, lover, best friend, and for some, your child! You go through waves where you actually check and post on social media. Basically, if an Aries did something they see as remarkable, count on them being online for a few days. Your higher standards do limit you from posting the details of your life. But… your achievements and life overall are quite impressive and empowering. So people still love your profile anyways.

You review your friends, their mommas, their friends’ mommas, and an article they share about how you can invest more into your love life. You actually reply to some people who think you’re “sketch”— “grinding” is a more suiting adjective. Ugh, so you also stay off social media so you aren’t distracted from the leadership positions or devotion to your scholastic, athletic, or artistic talent. You go back and forth because you can’t focus on one thing at a time when you want the time to do all. Then sometimes social media is out of the picture overall…. until you accomplished something else worth posting about.

With Aries, it’s honestly as unpredictable as your life.

Taurus (April 20th-May 20th): “…. but first, let me take a selfie.”

The funniest thing about you, Taurus, is that your social media presence is actually pretty darn good. Your profile isn’t ever overbearing, but you want it to reveal you. People enjoy you on social media because you have something different to offer — which most Tauruses see being called “different” as the ultimate compliment. It’s also common to see people of your sign post selfies when you’re feelin’ yourself. Whether it is photography, artsy, or high-quality pictures, you definitely have it going on, Taurus. Your life comes off as exciting… even if that field you took a picture in was actually your backyard.

So yeah, you want people to take a double take of your Insta or Twitter in the online scene…. but not in person. You’re reserved by nature with an outgoing side you try masking at times. You may even be somewhat selective of your posting. Even as a less avid social media user you still hold some image for yourself. Away from the phone screen and in reality, however, you are probably in your sweats, hair unwashed for two days, head down… praying to God no one notices you.

… But aside from that, you’ll go and do something productive… for the ‘gram.

Gemini (May 21st-June 20th): “My profile is a Guess Who board game… but instead it’s my multiple personalities.”

The struggle, Gemini. You’re actually really confusing because on one hand, your social media is on fire. Artsy pics are a must because, like, no one can have a page that looks like yours. Something about how much you confuse yet fascinate people just makes you tick. You must have good quality pictures and posts that show your artsy, intellectual, and/or social sides, depending on which one Gemini feels like that day. And perhaps you try finding a way to incorporate all 5 sides of you, depending on which Gemini you are. (This is a sign that requires an understanding of an individual’s birth chart because their complex mind applies different traits.)

And of course, many struggle understanding you because you are a rebel by logic. As the conductor of the hot mess express, your social media profile is one of the first pit stops. Unless you randomly decide the reserved side of Gemini should rarely ever post because you’re too MIA to even care. Meanwhile, you stay somewhat updated (maybe every 3 to 6 months) on pictures of you up so when people try to online stalk you, they have at least something to look at.

Guess who?! Rebellious Gemini? Cuffed Gemini (the wild card)? No Gemini? The world may never know.

Cancer (June 21st-July 22nd): “…… and these are the things I love!!! <3”

Cancer, either you have a bangin’ social media presence or you use your page as your personal diary post. If any sign is all about the exclamation points, it is you. The artsy, adventurous Cancer who is setting out in the world to conquer negativity through their overwhelming love? Promoting their passion? Or the Cancer who travels to new places probably because you have a bae of some shape or form there…. or because you serve others and/or have a cause to promote? What about that picture of you with an elephant in Africa when you went on your third mission trip? Now that is definitely something worth seeing. Stalkable profile rating equals a solid 8 to 9.

Or if you’re the more reserved Cancer, you probably have little care for your social media presence — as long as the people you love can keep up. Your page? Relationships. Parent bonding. A selfie with your new dog… or cat. Memes. Besties. Babies… your ex from 5 years ago that you’re not over but your current boo thang doesn’t have to know. Chances are, if you’re this Cancer, you have a problem of letting go… to include that picture from 2011 with the Delia’s pun T-shirt.

You probably look at your own social media page than other people do… you know, for old times sake.

Leo (July 23rd-August 22nd): “I’ve made my page to where you can openly stalk my crazy beautiful life….. all likes are welcome here.”

Remember how celebrities greeted us on MTV cribs? “Hi, I’m Leo, and welcome to my social media pad.” Social media isn’t your diary— it is your own reality TV for the world to see. Which is why your page is on public…. or on private but you probably accept almost anyone that requests anyways. When people see your profile, it definitely puts the “extra” in “extroverted”— usually in a good way. In other words, Leo, a good social media presence for you is when you be yourself— which really isn’t hard for you, at all.

People gravitate towards you and your page, and in turn, you find many admiring you. You post daily and understand social networking quite well. And yes, social media is probably a second career for you. You post for a number of reasons that many may not post for. When you do post, it’s something you know will get you the number of ‘likes’ and engagement it deserves. Even as a more reserved Leo, you may be all about motivational posts about faith, love, and passion. You may see countless pictures of a specific person, thing, or concept that you love since you are so passionate about what you do. It’s rare to see a Leo who doesn’t at least kind of enjoy social media– after all, you are the social butterfly of the zodiac!

Basically, you wear your heart on your sleeve… and social media profiles.

Virgo (August 23rd-September 22nd): “I spent way too much time debating whether or not I should post this.”

How many times did you change that filter, Virgo? How long did you spend on your caption? Your overthinking does you both justice and injustice with your social media presence. Since you are more prone to social anxiety, you think through what you post and how people will view you for it. On one hand, you may have a rather lively profile. When you’re in the right mindset to express your creativity and artsy side, your followers dig it. Your detailed nature allows you to make a good presence.

Most Virgos find social media as a tool to reveal more about them to people — as you can be reserved more often than not in everyday life. Either your earthly element brings out your weird side, or your overthinking limits you to simplicity. You try cooking up a witty caption but your overthinking spoils your creative juices so you just go with something straightforward… yet must have a minimum of two emojis. If your overthinking really catches your tongue, these juices can potentially projectile word vomit into the post box with everything you previously just contemplated. Then there’s Virgos who just, like, never post because they can no longer handle the torture of the unknown thought of their followers.

Either way, Virgo, just post what you want already. People like you… stop overthinking it!

Libra (September 23rd-October 22nd): “I literally get out of the house twice a week at max, so what you see is what you get.”

Libra, you are one who cares about image, but you’re also one who is too freakin’ lazy to really build a social media presence. You’re likely rejuvenating from the social exhaustion that stupid people gave you, and social media only enhances this…. at times. You either stay off for a few days and worry ’bout ya own self. You may be the Libra who wants to post something, but that would require you leaving your bed and taking off your t-shirt covered with Nutella tracings just to go initiate social interaction that you really could care less for.

Luckily for you, Libra, this doesn’t hurt your social media presence because you do have a night or two out of the week where you do want to be social or where you participate in something worth posting about. You are usually well-liked and physically put together when you do make your appearance — which is why you don’t have to try and impress. You just do. You like that balance of “I’m socially relevant” and “What you see is what you get because I ain’t got time for all that.”

Well, what we see — we likey, Libra.

Scorpio (October 23rd-November 21st): “My BAEs!!!”

BAE for Scorpio is more than lovers and friends, “before anyone else” also means your family, career, and other passions you dabble into. Your emotional energy is built mostly on love, and much like Cancer you really only post about things you love. Yes, it’s likely you’re a regular poster because you enjoy sharing the love you feel from the blessings in your life. The same two friends, your relationship, family, and the next advancements you’ve made in life — since we all know, and sometimes fear, the badassery of a Scorpio.

But for more reserved Scorpios, BAE also means these “before anyone else’s” come before your social media. You forget to post a lot, or you just don’t have time or energy to. Plus, your intuition ringing in you gives you an irritating and drained feeling because you can just sense how fake these people and their posts are. Gag. For some this means your social media is the BAE — you be feelin’ yourself, posting your fine selfies, and telling the world about what is on your heart for the day.

You basically hate to love yet love to hate social media.

Sagittarius (November 22nd-December 21st): “My page exudes adventure… and instability.”

Another flight, another sight — Sagittarius in a nutshell because your life is just entertaining and always on the move. That’s what life is about for you — except that you really aren’t that concerned with your social media. Actually, you get in these moods where you don’t mind your ego being fed with the pure enjoyment people get from your posts. That’s honestly what your social media is for you — living, breathing Canon-quality proof that your life is a joke. An enjoyable, lighthearted one at that. But it’s okay… that’s why people love you!

It gets better — you know those random relationships you jump into or places you move to because, well, you really don’t know? Please tell us how many times you’ve posted about them… all to decide that you’re ready to change your life again. If you’re a more reserved or developed Sag, then you just give up on posting much because you can barely keep up with yourself. The only thing that holds any stability or consistency is when you post family or sports pictures because hey, that’s the only thing that doesn’t change for you… usually.

… But it works for you, so do you.

Capricorn (December 22nd-January 19th): “Sorry… I promise I’m cooler in person.”

You’re an old soul, Capricorn. You don’t have any social media front whatsoever because you see it as unnecessary. Rather than a front, it’s more of the fact that you’re a lot cooler in person than your media entails. While your fellow earth signs like to make their profiles reveal more about themselves, you don’t. You know you can’t control what people think of you, but you sure can control your social media — which in the modern world is essentially the same thing.

But… this isn’t to say your presence sucks. As a matter of fact, your detailed and structured personality drives you to keep your profile neat and clean — just like your self-perfected life. You show the highlights, best pictures, achievements, and those who are close to you. You don’t care about what others think, and more often than not you could care less about the likes on your post. Which is why you usually get a decent or large amount — you don’t try hard and you don’t even care to.

Let’s just call your social media a “sneak peek” into your life.

Aquarius (January 20th-February 18th): “I have 99 problems… and social media ain’t one.”

How is your life holding up right now, Aquarius? How many problems and responsibilities have you been running from that has only hoarded more stress onto you? You, the water bearer, splashes your water on all other areas than your social media because let’s face it — you have 99 problems that your social media should not be involved in.

You’ll like people’s pictures (if you even do that) all day, yet you can’t allow anyone to know that, God forbid, your very convincing “I totally have it together” image is a cover-up for the slop show you like to call your life. You barely know what’s going on in front of you — let alone should people know more about you than you do. Rebellious Aquarius will not stand for this, so you just post a good picture with some artistic or decent quality highlighting some positive aspect of your life.

But little do they know, Aquarius…

Pisces (February 19th-March 20th): “Weirdness isn’t just my aesthetic; it is my soul.”

Oh, Pisces. Life is your beautifully messy canvas, and so is your social media profile. It’s rare to see those born under your sign not have at least some artistic element to their personality, whether or not you choose to show it. One thing about your sign is that you don’t prefer using words to send a message to your followers, you use pictures. On one hand, you likely post about those you love and the adventures that you hold with them. This side of you doesn’t try to be artsy necessarily, but it does reveal your weirdness that you are shameless about. Yes, it’s likely you have a good phone camera or a Canon because you appreciate quality. Meanwhile, a more reserved Pisces may resemble a Cancer with their profile.

On the other hand, it’s common to see your sign have an artsy profile… perhaps to the point where people have no clue what kind of presence you’re trying to promote. You’re the creative powerhouse of the zodiac, so you see beauty in the simple things that others overlook. Perhaps you post a selfie wrapped in your Eno… with the Perpetua Insta filter… captioning, “My soul is an unborn butterfly… a caterpillar longing to be set free in this basic world.” Or if you’re the Pisces who isn’t into selfies, you’ll just post objects you see as artistically valuable and slap a filter that is vintage… so fetch.

Either way, Pisces get famous for their weirdness… so we can’t really knock it.

25 Of The Most Powerful Quotes Of All Time

These 25 carefully selected words of wisdom truly are some of the most powerful and wisest quotes ever written.

Perhaps they might be able to give you a new perspective on life.

Here they come…

1. “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” – Albert Einstein

2. “Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.” – Sigmund Freud

3. “In seeking happiness for others, you will find it in yourself.” – Unknown

4. “Love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is a fruit of love, the verb.” – Stephen Covey

5. “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” – Viktor Frankl

6. “He who fears he will suffer, already suffers because he fears.” – Michel De Montaigne

7. “Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.” – Winston Churchill

8. “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” – Gandhi

9. “When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us.” – Helen Keller

10. “Challenges is what makes life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.” – Joshua J. Marine

11. “If you want happiness for an hour – take a nap. If you want happiness for a day – go fishing. If you want happiness for a year – inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a life time – help someone else.” – Chinese proverb

12. “Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose.” – Viktor Frankl

13. “A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions.” – Oliver Wendell Holmes

14. “Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” – Confucius

15. “Many people are passionate, but because of their limiting beliefs about who they are and what they can do, they never take actions that could make their dream a reality” – Anthony Robins

16. “True success is overcoming the fear of being unsuccessful.” – Paul Sweeney

17. “The only way that we can live is if we grow. The only way we can grow is if we change. The only way we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we are exposed is if we throw ourselves into the open.” – C. Joybell

18. “If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” – Mary Engelbreit

19. “A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.” – George Bernhard Shaw

20. “Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity.” – Henry van Dyke

21. “I would rather die a meaningful death than to live a meaningless life.” – Corazon Aquino

22. “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” – Reinhold Niebuhr

23. “Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” – Stephen Covey

24. “We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.” – Mother Theresa

25. “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the present.” – Bil Keane

Source: Pick the Brain 


Here’s What Your Ex Misses Most About You, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Things makes a lot of sense now…

Aries (March 21 April 19)

As an Aries, there is no denying how exciting and adventurous you are as a person. You are very outgoing and you always like to try new things. You are absolutely allergic to monotony and routines, and that’s why you are always looking to spice things up in life. What your ex misses most about you is the fact that being with you is never boring and it is always going to be a memorable experience when you’re around.В You can also read our very famous articles on how to love an AriesВ andВ how you should be loved.

Taurus (April 20 May 21)

You are a natural nurturer despite your tough and rugged exterior. You always offer a very kind arm to lean on and shoulder to cry on. You tend to project a very comforting presence to be people around you. What your ex misses most about you is the way you always managed to bring calmness to any situation. You always approached tough times with confidence and ease.В В You can also read our another piece on 7 things that make Taurus the most romantic partner ever.

Gemini (May 22 June 21)

You have quite the power to uplift the spirits of all the people around you. As a Gemini, your positive attitude is infectious and that’s what people love most about you. You always choose to see the glass as half-full and people tend to follow that. That’s what your ex misses most about being with you. You had this uncanny ability to bring brightness into any room that you walked into.В Here are some qualities of Leo women and how you should treat them the right way.В В Also read our separate article for Geminies:В 5 Easy Ways to Love a Gemini.В – Continue reading on the next page

Cancer (June 22 July 22)

If Cancers were to be known for only one thing, it would be for their great abilities as listeners. You are extremely skilled conversationalists and you are an absolute joy to talk to. It’s not necessarily because you are insightful and eloquent, but because you are a great listener. You are very empathetic and you always have this ability to make people feel like they are being heard. Your ex misses having someone to rant and talk to.В Also read 10 things you need to know about a Cancerian woman.

Leo (July 23 August 22)

You are a proud creature because you are a Leo. However, you do not let your pride get in the way of your thoughtfulness and sensitivity. You are always thinking of ways to make the people around you better. You are rarely ever selfish because you always think that it’s important to be thinking of other people. You are also very sensitive to how other people are feeling and that’s what your ex misses most about you.В Here are some qualities of Leo women and how you should treat them the right way.В 

Virgo (August 23 September 22)

You are as solid as a rock. You are a great foundation to build lasting relationship upon because of your commitment and your consistency. You are a very easygoing person, and it’s very difficult for people to make you give up on your principles. That’s why your ex misses you a lot: because you have this uncanny ability to make people feel secure in your consistency and commitment.В В Here are 13 things that you should know about loving a Virgo.В – Continue reading on the next page

Libra (September 23 October 22)

You are one of the most attractive creatures on the face of this earth. You have the power to stop people dead on their tracks with just a single glance. You are intelligent, eloquent, and very amiable. Your attractive nature is what drives your ex crazy at the thought of having ever lost you.В В If you are in love with Libra then read 10 truths about loving a LibraВ and you can also readВ Why are Libras considered as the best long term partners.

Scorpio (October 23 November 22)

You are quite the energetic little creature. You always have a very good outlook on life and you are always prepared to take on whatever challenges are being thrown your way. You have no issues with people, because you are very easygoing and charming. Your ex misses how you always managed to infect other people with your energy and vivaciousness.В If you’re planning on dating a Scorpio thenВ you should know theВ 15 Brutally Honest things about Scorpios.

Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)

You are always looking on the brighter side of life. It is far too difficult to be depressed whenever you’re around. Your deep and profound insights are always strong enough to be able to lift people out of the dark and into the light. You are a piece of sunshine to everyone’s day and your ex misses that about you.В Also read,В 10 Ways to Love a Sagittarius.В – Continue reading on the next page

Capricorn (December 22 January 20)

As a Capricorn, you have a very sporadic personality. No one can predict what you’re going to do next because you are adventurous and impulsive. Your ex used to always love surprises, and that is exactly what you brought to the table. You were always very free-spirited and you never let anything hinder you from going after what you wanted.В 10 Things to Remember While Loving a Capricorn and if you are in a relationship with a Capricorn read, 10 ways to make a strong relationship with a Capricorn!

Aquarius (January 21 February 18)

Very few people in this world are honest these days. At every second of the day, there is someone in the world who is lying about something. That is why it is very refreshing for someone to be in the presence of an Aquarius. You are very honest, and you always open up about your innermost thoughts. You have no problem with speaking the truth at all and your ex loved that about you.В Also read,В 9 Things to Adopt For a Healthy Relationship with an Aquarius.

Pisces (February 19 March 20)

You are a deeply emotional and empathetic creature. As a Pisces, you have a natural tendency to always be caring for other peoples’ feelings. Your ex absolutely misses how you were always sensitive and thoughtful when it came to emotions.В Also read,В 10 things you need to know about Loving aВ Pisces.

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How To Get His Attention, According To His Zodiac Sign

He may be a mystery, but getting his attention doesn’t have to be.

Sometimes, a girl can make herself look silly while trying to catch the attention of a guy she really likes. She can find herself trying to read into his daily horoscope for clues on his love energy.

When she’s around him, she’ll be seen twirling her hair, stumbling over her words, and just flat out saying the wrong things.

She can become embarrassed and give up all hope, but it doesn’t always have to be that way. A princess can get her prince charming if she knows exactly what to do.
Getting a guy to make eye contact with you is just the first step to winning the affection of the man you want. Having him notice you’re interested is, after all, what leads to bigger and better things.
When you have a crush on a guy, you want him to feel the same way. But trying too hard to appeal to his interests, doesn’t seem to attract his attention.

He seems disinterested and no matter what you say or do he might not recognize that you’re remotely interested in him, either. 
Don’t kick yourself over it! Other girls struggle with this, too. It’s all about learning how to make an impression which is a skill anyone female can learn from astrology.


There’s are many ways to catch a man’s attention, but first you need to know what he is attracted to.
Some girls take initiative and make a move first. But, girls who find out what astrology says about a zodiac sign’s interests have a better chance in getting a guy to like her.


These little pieces of knowledge can help you get a guy to not only notice, but care about you. And what’s better than making someone you like do a double check? (Besides him making his own romantic moves!)
Although knowing what his zodiac sign likes, may not ALWAYS work on ALL men. It can happen. Each male zodiac sign prefers a different method of getting him to find you attractive, and finding out what those is bit of a challenge.
Some men are hard to read, and knowing which each guy wants can be difficult to figure out. You have to guess and assume what he’s thinking at all times when you go blindly without understanding things about his personality.
Luckily, astrology reveals a lot about a person and reading your daily horoscope is a good start.
But digging in a little deeper to truly understand zodiac signs from a male perspective is another way to find out how you can get his attention.

Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Aries men love women who are strong and determined. A woman who is a leader that doesn’t allow little hills in their path stop her from getting from Point A to Point B attract him her way.
Make it known to an Aries male zodiac sign that you’re confident, and he’ll want to talk to you 24/7.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
To capture a Taurus man’s attention, it’s vital that you approach him as a friend first. A Taurus male zodiac sign values friendship and trust and won’t have a romantic relationship with a girl that isn’t already in his inner circle of friends.
After a friendship with him begins to grow, he’ll already have known you. And, if he is interested, a relationship can blossom from there.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
A Gemini man appreciates a girl that takes initiative. If you make the first move or looks in his direction before he can make a quick glance, he’ll follow you until you give him a chance.
Like Aries male zodiac sign, Geminis love girls that know what they want.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer guys are a bit more emotional and sympathetic than the other zodiac signs. He likes to lay low and relax, rather than go out. To really catch a male Cancer’s eye, offer up plans to hang out at his place and watch a film.
And to catch even more of his attention, ask him if he wants you to pick the movie out.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Leo male zodiac signs tend to be adventurous, curious individuals. He looks for a woman who likes the things that he does.
When you’re out in a group, make sure to be the life of the party, and a Leo man will notice your eccentric personality. In a heartbeat, he’ll make his move.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgo guys love girls that are fashionable and organized. He’s the kind of guy who pays attention to the style of clothing a girl wears and how she presents herself.
While most girls don’t like being told how to dress, if you really want a Virgo man to notice you, dress professionally and pay attention to the details.
This is a surefire way to catch his attention.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
A good way to get a Libra guy to look in your direction is to share the same interests with him. He’s in love with nature.
A Libra spends a lot of time in nature and finds beauty in natural things, so if a Libra man notices your love for the great outdoors, he’ll find your truly irresistible and come crawling to you.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
For a Scorpio male zodiac sign to notice you, you need to be — or at least appear to be — independent. A girl who acts like she doesn’t need a man or anyone telling her what to do drives Scorpio men crazy.
They’ll find themselves chasing after a woman who knows her stuff in an instant.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius men love it when a woman enjoys communicating with him. Talking about anything and everything is a great way to catch his attention.
Sagittarians are outgoing and highly extroverted and love to converse non-stop. If you start a conversation with him, he’ll love it, and want to keep the communication going.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
A good way to get a Capricorn guy to look in your direction is to start an intellectual conversation with him. Capricorns are more serious and prefer deep conversations.
Ask him questions like “What’s holding you back in life?” and something philosophical.  The more you get him to think, the more he will think about you.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Aquarius men will notice a girl right away if she’s a bit mysterious. If you keeps yourself a bit closed up, he’ll notice right away — and it’ll drive him crazy.
He doesn’t know a thing about you, and wanting to find out will bother him until he gets the chance to talk to you. You could keep this going for as long as you like.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Pisces are the most creatively inclined of the zodiac signs. They appreciate all things art, whether it’s music or literature.
The best way to capture the attention of a Pisces man is to find the right setting. In this case, the right setting could be a local concert or an art museum.
Going to these places won’t require too much talking, but he’ll notice your love for art and want to spark up conversation about it. Perhaps he’ll be the one inviting you on another date!

The Type Of Man You're Not Meant To Be With, According To Your Zodiac Sign

Incompatibility is sometimes a hard pill to swallow.

What’s your love compatibility? It might be easier to just ask you if you know what zodiac signs you’re most compatible with and the ones you should avoid at all costs? You always hear about the type of guy you’re meant to be with, but never the one you’re NOT meant to be with.

Wouldn’t it be so much easier if astrology and your daily horoscope told you which guys to look out for instead of the ones who will end up just being another ex?
I know it would for me. I would be too worried about trying to find the men I should stay away from (so that I could stay away from them) that I would totally miss out on all the other guys who would be the better options for me. Maybe that’s just me, but you get my point.
Of course, knowing which type of guy you’re NOT meant to be with when you’re already in a relationship might actually be a good way to know if the relationship you’re in is actually worth the trouble.


Finding the right guy — like, the one you want to spend a long time with — can be difficult. Finding out the truth on love compatibility is not easy, it’s hard to read the signals.
It’s so hard to know what someone wants upfront (without being too assertive and creepy) that you almost have to waste your time just to get a straight answer about his intentions.
That sounds bad, but I am not a fan of dating. Sure, I like to meet new people, but actually going on dates is always so painful for me.
I’d rather go on a date with Jigsaw than another date with a guy who makes me drive 45 minutes just for him to be unable to keep a decent conversation.

It’s happened before and I’m sure it’ll happen again. But dating isn’t always that bad. It’s being with someone for a long time, trying to decide if it’s meant to be, that takes some deep thought.
Trying to know whether the person you’re dating is the one you want to spend your life with can be difficult.
Obviously, you can’t outright ask him — I mean, you could, but I don’t know how that kind of conversation would happen — and just “knowing” if the guy you’re with is the one you’re meant to be with forever doesn’t always work for everyone.

What does work is knowing what astrology teaches about your zodiac sign says about you and your preferences for love.
If your personality is more outgoing and extroverted, say, then you know that the man you’re meant to be with isn’t going to be someone who would rather stay home on a Friday night instead of at the club, right? Makes a lot more sense that way, doesn’t it?


So, by that logic, keep reading to find out which guy you’re not meant to be with, based on astrology. Because let’s face it, not every guy is going to be “The One”, but it’s up to you to weed out the bad guys and find that special one.

ARIES (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

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Aries, the only thing you hate more than having a “lazy day” yourself is dating someone whose lazy day is the only thing in their schedule for Saturday. What I mean is, you are all about go, go, go and the only reason why weekends exist is because they let you get done everything you couldn’t fit in during the week.
So, when going out for sushi and a movie is on your schedule, and your S.O. would rather stay in for the six weekend in a row, you know that this relationship probably isn’t going to work out.
There might have been a time when you thought that the fact that he’s probably about 50{b75a4a6005db7822c82f3e33dad0e4d58697da6786c21fbe97332e94bc283cbb} couch potato was endearing and a way for you to “slow down and smell the roses” or whatever, but now, you know better. You need someone who is on your level all the time, not just when the mood strikes. Get yourself a new man, babe, this one isn’t meant to stick around.

TAURUS (Apr 20 – May 20)

taurus not meant to be zodiac signs, love compatibility

Taurus, you love all the lovey-dovey crap that would make any other person roll their eyes and you expect your partner to feel the same (as you, not everyone else). So, when you finally realize that the man you’re with — or the one you’ve been considering asking out — is so much more infatuated with himself than you, then you know something isn’t exactly right.
You don’t mind having someone who takes pride in looking good before you two go out and all that, but when he’d rather kiss his own reflection before bed and not you, you know it’s not gonna last.
Unlike some people in this position, it’s not so much the fact that he likes being the center of attention that bothers you; it’s the fact that he would rather take care of himself than YOU that really bugs you. How are you supposed to keep up with his exhausting schedule of making him feel loved when all it does is seriously drain you? Exactly — there’s your answer.

GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)

gemini not meant to be zodiac signs, love compatibility

Gemini, you’re an in-charge kind of woman, which means that you need an in-charge kind of guy to be your one and only. You love the thought of ruling the city like a Kim and Kanye type of power couple that you’re always on the look-out for someone to be your other half when you’re out with friends. But you need to remind yourself that this is the best way to find the one you’re meant to be with, instead of giving up and trying the library or a coffee shop.
You’re an extroverted person and I hate to say it, but the only people who frequent coffee shops and bookstores are the people who aren’t very social. The last person you’re meant to be with – and I mean like last person on earth – is the shy guy who seems mysterious, but is really just a wallflower. There’s nothing like hating your relationship when it’s Friday night (again) and you have to drag him out just for one drink — AGAIN.

CANCER (June 21 – July 22)

cancer not meant to be zodiac signs, love compatibility

Cancer, when you think of the ideal relationship — ideal meaning the two of you will live in your princess castle forever and ever — you think of someone you can lock it down early with. You’re the type of person who plans her wedding before she can even spell wedding, so you need someone who’s more similar to you than you think. The kind of guy who says stuff like, “When you know, you know!” because that’s the type of thing you ALWAYS say about dating.
The guy you absolutely need to stay away from is the playboy who doesn’t care about you, your feelings. or your princess castle. All he wants is to get laid and flirt, and if you’re unlucky enough to get sucked into his web, then you already know it can be tempting to just stay and let him get what he wants, even though it’s a terrible idea to put what you really want on pause.

LEO (July 23 – Aug 22)

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Leo, you’re the type of gal who constantly demands to be the center of attention and on the receiving end of gifts and affection at all times — except not in a cranky, Toddlers and Tiaraskind of way. You know that you thrive best in relationships where this happens ALL of the time and not just some of the time. So, when you look for that one guy you want to spend all of your waking hours with, why you would go for anyone BUT the worshiping type is beyond me.
The guy it’ll never work out with in a million years – despite you trying to make it work — is the manly man. He’s too busy flexing his muscles in the mirror and texting his bros to notice that you’re even there. You need love and affection, and if he isn’t up to the challenge (which, let’s face it, he isn’t), then he isn’t the one for you. You need someone who loves that you demand it all from life, not the one who thinks you should share (who even shares anymore!?).

VIRGO (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

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Virgo, you’ve got a good, practical head on your shoulders, which means that you make some of the best decisions when it comes to love and relationships. You don’t often make mistakes, but when you’re REALLY into someone, it can be hard for you to use that pretty noggin of yours for anything besides thoughts of your loved one. You know that relationships take time, which means that being in one with a hopeless romantic is just a recipe for disaster.
With a hopeless romantic, everything is a whirlwind. You can’t really take the time to slow down and make the right decision because as soon as he has a thought in his head, he’s off and running with it. You need someone who will be just as smart and practical as you (but still push you to do the things you’re too scared to do) rather than someone who loves love, but not necessarily everything that comes AFTER love.

LIBRA (Sept 23 – Oct 22)

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Libra, you’re known for being the mediator with all of your friends because you just know how to stop arguments and cat fights before things get really nasty. your friends might not always say it, but they appreciate you keeping your cool when they can’t.
So, when you look for love, you tend to look for someone you can talk to. Being someone who likes to communicate, you know that relationships never really last unless you can communicate like a boss with your significant other.
This also means that it’ll never work out with the guy who is less of a thinker and more of a doer. When it’s time to talk about your feelings or, better yet, argue about what’s wrong, your partner needs to know that this is how you get through things.
If he’s too worried about hurting your feelings or is more of the strong, silent type, it won’t work out. You need to yell and scream sometimes to let your partner know you still love him (and he needs to be able to do the same).

SCORPIO (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

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Scorpio, you may be known as the mysterious woman who always keeps men guessing, but let me tell you, that’s not the type of guy you should be going after. It might seem like a sexy cat and mouse game at first, but when it’s time to think about getting serious, you can’t have to keep wondering if he’s really into you or if he just like the back and forth. All this does is make it harder for you to decide if he’s worth the trouble or not (and he’s usually not).
Instead, all two mysterious people in a relationship lead to are a lot of lies and secrets. You might think him leaving the apartment without telling you where he’s going is fine for a while, but when he refuses to tell you ANYTHING after however many months you’re together, it’s not fine; it’s just a mess. You don’t need the stress of trying to decipher everything he does because chances are, you’ll never find out anyway.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov 22 – Dec 19)

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Sagittarius, as an optimistic, carefree, and, may I say, gorgeous woman, you like being independent and any other synonym of the word. So, when you’re in a relationship, you need to be with someone who will make you feel safe and loved without all of the clinginess that sometimes comes with love. Because at the first hint of feeling uncomfortable, you’re going to flee — you don’t need someone who’s going to make you question your feelings.
At the same time, you also need someone who is on your level when it comes to excitement and fun. If you want to up and leave for the weekend, he has to already be in the car waiting for you, not worrying if he can leave his pet goldfish for a few days. Just like a shark can sniff out blood in the water, you can sniff out the cautious people who aren’t worth your time.

CAPRICORN (Dec 20 – Jan 19)

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Capricorn, you would much rather have your whole life already figured out instead of worrying about love, money, career, and all that junk. But alas, that’s not how life works. So, instead, you take charge of every aspect of your life, including relationships.
You already know what you want when it comes to love, you just need to find someone who feels the same way. And the one guy you should NEVER assume is the right person is the guy who doesn’t really care where his life is going.
Anyone who could be described as rebellious or a free spirit type of person isn’t going to make it in your book. You need someone who is not only serious about life and the future, but serious about getting serious with you. If all he cares about is having fun and not being on a schedule (I know that bothers you), then he clearly doesn’t care about you.

AQUARIUS (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

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Aquarius, you like to see life as a glass half full situation, which means that you tend to stay away from the people who think otherwise. You know that you can get everything you want out of life as long as you grab life by the horns and all of the other inspiring metaphors you can think of so when you look for love and relationships, all you want is someone who will be there to root for you.
You’re also an independent person who sees a relationship as a way to connect with someone without being dependent on them, so your partner needs to have his own goals in life, rather than try to tag along with everything you want to do.
You already know that the man it’ll never work out with is the one who doesn’t care about getting his life together, is content with staying where he is for the rest of his life, and generally has a bad attitude, especially when he has the means to fix whatever is bringing him down.

PISCES (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

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Pisces, whether you’re helping your friends or your significant other, it always brings you joy to know that you can make others happy just by lending a hand or being there for them when they need it. You always take the time to be there for the people you love, even if it means putting your own needs on the back burner for now. So, when it comes to love, you need someone who can appreciate that effort because not everyone is a superhero like you.
The one guy you desperately need to stay away from is the insensitive jerk who doesn’t really care what you do in your free time, as long as you take care of him when you’re together. You think that he might be a project and that you can fix him if you’re together long enough, but that isn’t the case. He just wants to use you and, worse, make you feel bad when you’re wrong and he’s right, which will only make you feel unworthy of love (an impossible thought, by the way).

What Each Zodiac Sign Is Like When They’re In Love (In Once Sentence)

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(March 21st to April 19th)

An Aries in love is open, wild, and unafraid of their own feelings.


(April 20th to May 21st)

A Taurus in love is warm, and slightly wary – but completely willing to open up their whole world to you.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

A Gemini in love is initially very charming and delightful – and then much more tense and anxious when your feelings for each other become more intense.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

A Cancer in love is protective of themselves, while simultaneously trying to handle the way their heart is bursting over you.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

A Leo in love is focused on what they want and slightly overwhelmed at how out-of-control you make them feel.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

A Virgo in love is hard to read, cautious with their heart, and eager to form a solid connection with you – while doing everything they can not to overthink too much.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

A Libra in love is irresistible, really concerned with making you happy, and a little lost and overwhelmed by their own feelings.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

A Scorpio in love is passionate and intense while also struggling to not build up walls – since they’re used to being so independent and somewhat private.


(November 23rd to December 21st)

A Sagittarius in love is infectious, unabashedly open about who they are, and unafraid to grow really close to you really fast.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

A Capricorn in love is incredibly focused and to the point about committing to you, and unafraid to be practical and forthright about wanting to be with you.


(January 21st to February 18th)

An Aquarius in love struggles to fight against their instinct to be detached and aloof – but only because, for once, you make them want to open up and willingly make themselves vulnerable if it means growing closer to you.


(February 19th to March 20th)

A Pisces in love is sincere, unafraid to admit they believe in soulmates, and more concerned with your feelings than with their own. TC mark

4 Zodiac Signs Known For Their Meaningful Conversation, So Pillow Talk Will Def Be Great

There are few things I find sexier than a cunning linguist — AKA, a good conversationalist. I want all the witty banter — before sex and definitely after. (But not during, because “Shhh! I need to concentrate.”) Which is why I tend to be attracted to zodiac signs known for their meaningful conversation. I want to laugh, I want to be intellectually challenged, and I want someone who knows how to listen, too. So, while signs like Scorpio definitely have their charms, they are never going to steal my heart like a chatty Libra. Swoon.

While anyone can learn to be a good conversationalist, some folks are just born with the gift of gab — literally. These are folks who aren’t afraid to ditch the small talk and get deep, personal, and sometimes downright philosophical. And I am so here for it, because communication is one of the key ways we really get close to another person. Plus, who doesn’t love that phase in a relationship where you can just talk and talk for hours? With these signs, that phase never really goes away. So if, like me, you have a deep appreciation for pillow talk, here are four signs you’re going to want to get with ASAP.

Gemini (May 21 To June 20)

Of all the signs in the zodiac, Gemini is the best conversationalist by far. Because this sign is ruled by Mercury, the planet associated with communication, they don’t just want to talk — they want to go deep, since this sign connects best with others verbally. That might be a bore, except that Gemini is also extremely witty and clever, so one minute you’ll be having a powerful heart-to-heart, and the next, you won’t be able to stop giggling.

Libra (Sept. 23 To Oct. 22)

Libras are all about balance in every aspect of their lives and relationships, and this includes in they way they converse, which is why they’re not only great conversationalists, but also incredible listeners. When you’re talking with a Libra, it’s common to feel like you’re the only two people in the world. They hold your eye contact and sincerely want to hear what you are saying as much as they enjoy talking themselves. It’s so rare, and hot AF. They are sociable and easygoing, so the conversation just naturally flows with a Libra. Just watch out, because they do have a well earned rep for being a bit of a smooth talker.

Sagittarius (Nov. 22 To Dec. 21)

Because Sagittarius is so notoriously fickle and hard to pin down, you may think that means they’re shallow, but actually, that couldn’t be farther from the truth. While a Sag may not be around for long, in the short time you have them you can count on having deep, soulful conversations like you’ve never had before. You may even find yourself telling them things you’ve never shared with anyone before. Just be careful, this is one of the ways a Sag can steal your heart. You feel so connected, it comes as a shock when they bound off into the wild, looking for their next adventure.

Aquarius (Jan. 20 To Feb. 18)

For Aquarius, deep conversations are basically foreplay. They get turned on by the exchange of ideas, especially if the topic touches on their humanitarian passions. That’s because this sign tends toward the highly intellectual. Their biggest erogenous zone is without a doubt their minds, and so nothing is more stimulating and intriguing than finding a partner to share some, ahem, verbal discourse with. They, like Libra, are also excellent listeners who want to hear just as much as be heard — except maybe when they get on their favorite topic. In that case, just lay back and let it happen — they’re going to be talking a while.
While some folks may prefer the silent, mysterious types (in that case, get yourself a Capricorn), there’s just something extra hot about someone with some good verbal game, and these signs have that — and then some.
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